1 00:00:01,827 --> 00:00:05,067 Previously on "90-Day Fiancé: The Other Way." 2 00:00:08,482 --> 00:00:10,172 This is gonna be in my name. 3 00:00:14,620 --> 00:00:17,895 I value everything that you do. 4 00:00:17,896 --> 00:00:19,895 We're struggling to cross the finish line 5 00:00:19,896 --> 00:00:21,585 on us getting married. 6 00:00:21,586 --> 00:00:24,205 Just let me do what I need to do 7 00:00:24,206 --> 00:00:26,448 to make our dreams a reality. 8 00:00:30,379 --> 00:00:31,895 Jenny? 9 00:00:32,931 --> 00:00:34,896 My rum. 10 00:00:35,034 --> 00:00:38,964 I knew living and working together was gonna be tough. 11 00:00:40,793 --> 00:00:42,619 Stop calling me fat. 12 00:00:47,206 --> 00:00:48,586 All? 13 00:00:53,103 --> 00:00:57,344 There's just no way I'm gonna be able to handle this. 14 00:00:59,103 --> 00:01:02,481 With you trying to start a business, 15 00:01:02,482 --> 00:01:05,067 and living at your parents, what if it gets to the point 16 00:01:05,068 --> 00:01:08,378 where it's just too much? 17 00:01:08,379 --> 00:01:10,343 We moved to France to save our marriage, 18 00:01:10,344 --> 00:01:12,654 and I just can't get over the fact that 19 00:01:12,655 --> 00:01:14,826 she's going back to her old ways. 20 00:01:14,827 --> 00:01:17,620 I don't wanna go back to how it was. 21 00:01:19,000 --> 00:01:23,516 The easiest way for me to be legal is to get married. 22 00:01:23,517 --> 00:01:27,757 - This is a bad idea. - He has been cheating. 23 00:01:27,758 --> 00:01:30,862 - Lately, no. - Is he just lying better? 24 00:01:31,000 --> 00:01:33,550 Everybody on the island knows that Johny 25 00:01:33,551 --> 00:01:35,895 has a reputation with girls. 26 00:01:35,896 --> 00:01:40,481 If something were to happen, I would pack my so fast. 27 00:01:40,482 --> 00:01:41,758 Just prepare yourself, that's all I'm saying. 28 00:02:12,586 --> 00:02:14,964 Baby, this is so frustrating. 29 00:02:14,965 --> 00:02:16,654 Look at this mess. 30 00:02:16,655 --> 00:02:19,205 Look it, clothes are everywhere. 31 00:02:19,206 --> 00:02:21,585 This place is terrible. 32 00:02:21,586 --> 00:02:23,964 Like, I have nowhere to put anything. 33 00:02:23,965 --> 00:02:25,619 In the apartment we lived in before, 34 00:02:25,620 --> 00:02:27,205 I had a whole bedroom, 35 00:02:27,206 --> 00:02:30,205 a whole extra bedroom for our stuff. 36 00:02:30,206 --> 00:02:33,274 Big mistake to move here. It sucks. 37 00:02:35,827 --> 00:02:37,172 Like... 38 00:02:40,793 --> 00:02:44,447 OK, well, I can't even stand it here. 39 00:02:44,448 --> 00:02:47,895 Nothing works. Power keeps going out. 40 00:02:47,896 --> 00:02:50,412 And the shower sucks. 41 00:02:50,413 --> 00:02:52,654 The water, like, trickles out of my head. 42 00:02:52,655 --> 00:02:55,343 I have to, like, stand up against the pipes 43 00:02:55,344 --> 00:02:58,343 to get the water. It just sucks. 44 00:02:58,344 --> 00:03:01,620 Like, everything about this place is bad. 45 00:03:01,793 --> 00:03:06,999 We've been here for a couple of weeks, and oh my God, 46 00:03:07,000 --> 00:03:10,171 this house is turning in to be a nightmare. 47 00:03:10,172 --> 00:03:13,723 The lights go out, fluctuates between rooms. 48 00:03:13,724 --> 00:03:16,550 You go to turn on the hot water for a hot shower, 49 00:03:16,551 --> 00:03:19,412 and nope, no electricity there. 50 00:03:19,413 --> 00:03:23,620 So, so far, not so good. 51 00:03:25,931 --> 00:03:30,240 We can't leave our alcohol out. We have to hide it. 52 00:03:30,241 --> 00:03:32,999 Like, how old are we? If we wanna have a drink, 53 00:03:33,000 --> 00:03:36,274 we have to shut the door, lock it, hide a drink. 54 00:03:36,275 --> 00:03:38,344 I like it. 55 00:03:39,103 --> 00:03:43,205 You like hiding our alcohol and drinking in the room 56 00:03:43,206 --> 00:03:45,757 like we're teenagers? 57 00:03:45,758 --> 00:03:47,240 Are you listening to yourself? 58 00:03:47,241 --> 00:03:49,654 Like, you know, you are complaining... 59 00:03:49,655 --> 00:03:52,240 - Well-- - ...so much, baby. 60 00:03:52,241 --> 00:03:54,309 Yeah, well, I'm not happy here. 61 00:03:54,310 --> 00:03:56,792 I'm frustrated as hell. 62 00:03:56,793 --> 00:04:00,655 All I wanna do is just scream at the top of my lungs. 63 00:04:01,206 --> 00:04:07,171 Between this terrible apartment and the stress of the cafe, 64 00:04:07,172 --> 00:04:11,826 I feel like Sumit and I are already growing apart. 65 00:04:11,827 --> 00:04:14,861 When we were living on our own in the house and the apartment, 66 00:04:14,862 --> 00:04:18,654 sex life was great, at least three or four times a week. 67 00:04:18,655 --> 00:04:21,792 But now we got Mom living with us, we got a three-year-old 68 00:04:21,793 --> 00:04:25,516 living next door to us. Our sex life is basically done. 69 00:04:25,517 --> 00:04:27,000 It's over. There's no more. 70 00:04:30,034 --> 00:04:32,723 I just feel like it's one thing after another here, 71 00:04:32,724 --> 00:04:36,171 one thing after another is happening. 72 00:04:36,172 --> 00:04:39,792 And your mom is complaining about how I do things. 73 00:04:39,793 --> 00:04:42,895 It's not good enough, and I can't live like this. 74 00:04:42,896 --> 00:04:45,034 It gives me anxiety. 75 00:04:46,206 --> 00:04:49,102 She's expecting so much from me. 76 00:05:07,482 --> 00:05:10,585 Why are you so casual about all of this? 77 00:05:10,586 --> 00:05:12,551 This doesn't bother you at all? 78 00:05:17,793 --> 00:05:19,516 Well, that's you. 79 00:05:19,517 --> 00:05:22,619 That's you. It's not me. 80 00:05:22,620 --> 00:05:25,378 I'm not you. I'm a different person. 81 00:05:25,379 --> 00:05:29,274 I just don't know how I'm gonna be able to handle your mom. 82 00:05:29,275 --> 00:05:32,619 As soon as I wake up in the morning, I'm frustrated. 83 00:05:32,620 --> 00:05:33,655 I don't even feel like you have my back. 84 00:06:25,310 --> 00:06:29,309 - Oh. - Does this look good? 85 00:06:34,206 --> 00:06:36,585 I know. 86 00:06:36,586 --> 00:06:38,275 It'll be fine, baby. He loves you. 87 00:06:39,172 --> 00:06:41,412 The wedding is tomorrow. 88 00:06:41,413 --> 00:06:44,826 And this morning, my dad is arriving in Guatapé. 89 00:06:44,827 --> 00:06:47,792 My dad has never met Madelein before in person. 90 00:06:47,793 --> 00:06:51,930 So I'm super anxious. My dad means the world to me. 91 00:06:51,931 --> 00:06:55,482 He's one of my best friends. And I need them to get along. 92 00:06:57,896 --> 00:07:01,447 I don't know why I so nervous. 93 00:07:01,448 --> 00:07:03,550 You'll be OK. 94 00:07:03,551 --> 00:07:05,723 Oh, there he is. Hey, Dad. 95 00:07:05,724 --> 00:07:08,757 - Finally got here. - How was the flight? 96 00:07:08,758 --> 00:07:11,481 - How you doing? - Brilliant, good boy, good. 97 00:07:11,482 --> 00:07:13,999 - This is Madelein, Madelein my dad. - Hi, Madelein. 98 00:07:14,000 --> 00:07:15,067 - Nice to meet you. - Finally get to meet you. 99 00:07:15,068 --> 00:07:15,999 Finally! 100 00:07:17,586 --> 00:07:19,274 I love your country already. 101 00:07:19,275 --> 00:07:20,931 - Beautiful country, beautiful scenery. - Aw. 102 00:07:24,379 --> 00:07:26,481 Yeah. 103 00:07:26,482 --> 00:07:28,171 Have you started learning your signature yet? 104 00:07:28,172 --> 00:07:29,482 - To sign those checks? - Yeah. 105 00:07:31,896 --> 00:07:33,274 Don't give her a checkbook. 106 00:07:36,517 --> 00:07:39,688 Welcome. Everything here is beautiful. 107 00:07:39,689 --> 00:07:41,964 Like, really, this is a paradise. 108 00:07:41,965 --> 00:07:44,723 This is my, like, my favorite place in the world. 109 00:07:44,724 --> 00:07:47,309 Across the water, that's where I asked Madelein to marry me. 110 00:07:47,310 --> 00:07:48,517 So it's a special place. 111 00:07:49,000 --> 00:07:51,964 Gorgeous. 112 00:07:51,965 --> 00:07:54,102 - I need to put my stuff down. - Yeah, yeah, yeah. 113 00:07:54,103 --> 00:07:55,205 You're first room up on the right. 114 00:07:55,206 --> 00:07:56,861 So go put your things. 115 00:07:56,862 --> 00:07:58,309 Everyone else, they'll grab your things. 116 00:07:58,310 --> 00:07:59,792 Don't worry about it. 117 00:07:59,793 --> 00:08:01,585 And yeah, we're gonna go see the property. 118 00:08:01,586 --> 00:08:02,964 Today, we're gonna go? 119 00:08:02,965 --> 00:08:04,136 Yeah-- yeah, we're gonna go, like, right now. 120 00:08:04,137 --> 00:08:04,448 - All right. - Sounds good? 121 00:08:05,586 --> 00:08:07,102 - I've got my running shoes on. - All right. 122 00:08:07,103 --> 00:08:09,309 - Let's go. - All right, let's get it. 123 00:08:09,310 --> 00:08:10,861 Good job. You did good. 124 00:08:10,862 --> 00:08:14,378 My plans with my dad is to show him the property. 125 00:08:14,379 --> 00:08:17,171 My dad runs a really successful business. 126 00:08:17,172 --> 00:08:21,343 He's done well for himself. So I want his advice. 127 00:08:21,344 --> 00:08:23,136 All right, baby. 128 00:08:23,137 --> 00:08:25,171 We wish you could come, but I know you have to... 129 00:08:25,172 --> 00:08:27,413 Yeah, I have so many-- -- things to do. 130 00:08:28,206 --> 00:08:32,585 I really want his approval. But at the back of my head, 131 00:08:32,586 --> 00:08:34,757 I'm thinking, "Oh, . 132 00:08:34,758 --> 00:08:38,171 "I've made some really dumb decisions in the past. 133 00:08:38,172 --> 00:08:41,654 "So what if he doesn't approve? What if he doesn't like it? 134 00:08:41,655 --> 00:08:44,033 "What if he thinks that this is just another one 135 00:08:44,034 --> 00:08:45,551 of my dumb business decisions?" 136 00:08:54,827 --> 00:08:56,068 Welcome. 137 00:09:00,275 --> 00:09:02,930 So I'll have to construct the road. 138 00:09:02,931 --> 00:09:05,241 It'll be drivable, but right now we gotta walk it. 139 00:09:05,689 --> 00:09:07,344 There's a cow right here. 140 00:09:08,068 --> 00:09:10,861 I think it's my cow. 141 00:09:10,862 --> 00:09:13,517 So this is all yours from that gate we walked in. 142 00:09:13,689 --> 00:09:16,412 - Yeah. - How far down does it go? 143 00:09:16,413 --> 00:09:19,102 From here all the way down, basically all the way down 144 00:09:19,103 --> 00:09:21,171 to the valley where the creek comes. 145 00:09:21,172 --> 00:09:22,482 It's massive. It's-- it's huge. 146 00:09:24,103 --> 00:09:26,447 I like it. 147 00:09:26,448 --> 00:09:29,206 But here, let me-- let me show you some designs. 148 00:09:29,586 --> 00:09:32,585 There it's gonna be the hotel, 149 00:09:32,586 --> 00:09:35,688 two stories with the-- the infinity pool down below, 150 00:09:35,689 --> 00:09:38,171 discoteca, a restaurant. 151 00:09:38,172 --> 00:09:40,378 I understand why you're so excited. 152 00:09:40,379 --> 00:09:42,964 I mean, it's a beautiful piece of property. 153 00:09:42,965 --> 00:09:44,793 But how much is the hotel gonna cost? 154 00:09:45,689 --> 00:09:47,826 And you've got to run power, water. 155 00:09:47,827 --> 00:09:50,757 Right. 156 00:09:50,758 --> 00:09:52,102 I don't think it's as expensive as you might think. 157 00:09:52,103 --> 00:09:53,550 Hmm. 158 00:09:53,551 --> 00:09:55,964 Part of me finishing the plans 159 00:09:55,965 --> 00:09:58,930 is to find the costs for everything. 160 00:09:58,931 --> 00:10:00,379 - So I haven't quite gotten to that part yet. - Yeah. 161 00:10:01,275 --> 00:10:03,550 Wow! 162 00:10:03,551 --> 00:10:05,516 You've got to be very careful 163 00:10:05,517 --> 00:10:09,102 and take small steps because there's gonna be 164 00:10:09,103 --> 00:10:12,550 many other things that haven't even crossed your mind yet. 165 00:10:12,551 --> 00:10:15,205 If you say two million, it'll probably end up three. 166 00:10:15,206 --> 00:10:16,793 - OK-- mm-hmm. - It's just the way is. 167 00:10:17,000 --> 00:10:19,757 And that's serious money that you don't have. 168 00:10:19,758 --> 00:10:22,274 Right. 169 00:10:22,275 --> 00:10:26,171 A property like this, it's-- it's beautiful. 170 00:10:26,172 --> 00:10:29,343 You could expand it into something incredible. 171 00:10:29,344 --> 00:10:31,964 But he may be getting a little bit over his head, 172 00:10:31,965 --> 00:10:36,205 because Luke doesn't look at all the-- the whole picture. 173 00:10:36,206 --> 00:10:38,343 He's not a multimillionaire. 174 00:10:38,344 --> 00:10:40,447 And unfortunately, in today's world, 175 00:10:40,448 --> 00:10:43,206 everything costs money, and a lot of it. 176 00:10:43,689 --> 00:10:46,895 - You're gonna be a married man tomorrow. - Yeah. 177 00:10:46,896 --> 00:10:49,792 Is Madelein's name gonna be on the, uh, on the deed? 178 00:10:49,793 --> 00:10:53,723 Yeah, I mean, we-- we talked about it briefly yesterday. 179 00:10:53,724 --> 00:10:56,275 You know, Madelein wants to be included in the property name. 180 00:10:56,724 --> 00:10:59,999 - She's a firecracker. - Yeah. 181 00:11:00,000 --> 00:11:02,378 Yeah, take it from me. 182 00:11:02,379 --> 00:11:08,412 I...married the same kind of person, and it's not easy. 183 00:11:08,413 --> 00:11:09,964 You've got to let her know, 184 00:11:09,965 --> 00:11:12,309 "Listen, look what I'm giving you. 185 00:11:12,310 --> 00:11:16,171 "Everything we obtain from tomorrow on 186 00:11:16,172 --> 00:11:17,688 is both of ours." 187 00:11:17,689 --> 00:11:19,481 Right. 188 00:11:19,482 --> 00:11:22,964 "Anything before, what was yours is yours, 189 00:11:22,965 --> 00:11:24,793 and what was mine is mine." 190 00:11:25,379 --> 00:11:27,896 I've tried to say that, and she just 191 00:11:28,172 --> 00:11:30,792 has trouble understanding. 192 00:11:30,793 --> 00:11:33,343 - Well, 'cause she's trying to dominate you. - Yeah. 193 00:11:33,344 --> 00:11:35,274 Don't let her, otherwise you-- you're done. 194 00:11:35,275 --> 00:11:37,102 - Yeah. - She'll be the first woman 195 00:11:37,103 --> 00:11:39,000 I know with a vagina and a pair of nuts. 196 00:11:39,689 --> 00:11:42,067 - Yours. - Yeah. 197 00:11:42,068 --> 00:11:42,965 So don't let that happen. 198 00:11:46,689 --> 00:11:50,999 I'm really worried for Luke. 199 00:11:51,000 --> 00:11:54,585 I can actually, in the end, see Luke buckling a little bit, 200 00:11:54,586 --> 00:11:57,067 because she's got a lot of power over Luke. 201 00:11:57,068 --> 00:12:00,654 That's where we're not alike. I need to protect my son. 202 00:12:00,655 --> 00:12:02,447 You know, I'm willing to speak to Madelein, 203 00:12:02,448 --> 00:12:04,171 and if I have to spend an hour 204 00:12:04,172 --> 00:12:06,309 just trying to explain that to her, 205 00:12:06,310 --> 00:12:08,861 she's just got to understand, "Listen, this is the way 206 00:12:08,862 --> 00:12:12,551 business is done. So just eat it and forget it." 207 00:12:22,586 --> 00:12:26,930 I was less than seven years old, helping my mom doing 208 00:12:26,931 --> 00:12:29,000 the calculations on how much money we owe to the bank. 209 00:12:34,206 --> 00:12:38,033 Chloe has given up everything for you, 210 00:12:38,034 --> 00:12:41,481 and you haven't really changed doing what you do. 211 00:12:41,482 --> 00:12:42,482 You messaged another girl. 212 00:13:12,172 --> 00:13:16,033 Yum, yum, yum. 213 00:14:29,172 --> 00:14:32,343 Last week, I had a little fight with Anthony 214 00:14:32,344 --> 00:14:35,930 about my partnership with Dorian. 215 00:14:35,931 --> 00:14:39,205 And it feels like every single time Anthony and I talk about 216 00:14:39,206 --> 00:14:43,412 money or jobs, we end up fighting all the freaking time. 217 00:14:43,413 --> 00:14:45,964 The thing is, like, we still need to provide 218 00:14:45,965 --> 00:14:47,343 and pay the bills and save and everything. 219 00:14:47,344 --> 00:14:48,172 We're not rich. 220 00:14:55,793 --> 00:14:59,274 But spending time with Ben, 221 00:14:59,275 --> 00:15:03,033 I've seen him hugging me, wanting me. 222 00:15:03,034 --> 00:15:04,757 This feels pretty dang good. 223 00:15:04,758 --> 00:15:06,137 And I'm like, " money." 224 00:15:06,758 --> 00:15:09,413 I'm like, "I just wanna be with my son." 225 00:16:09,000 --> 00:16:13,723 I grew up with anxiety around money 226 00:16:13,724 --> 00:16:15,826 all the freaking time. 227 00:16:15,827 --> 00:16:20,930 My dad was a business owner working in security. 228 00:16:20,931 --> 00:16:23,654 Sometimes, actually, he never paid himself. 229 00:16:23,655 --> 00:16:26,861 He had to make sure the employees were paid first. 230 00:16:26,862 --> 00:16:30,033 I was less than seven years old, helping my mom doing 231 00:16:30,034 --> 00:16:33,102 the calculations on how much money we owe to the bank. 232 00:16:33,103 --> 00:16:36,481 That was a game. So I never have enough. 233 00:16:36,482 --> 00:16:39,033 I'm always thinking that I'm gonna lack money, 234 00:16:39,034 --> 00:16:41,379 and I absolutely don't want Ben to go through that. 235 00:18:01,931 --> 00:18:05,688 Hearing from Anthony and from my mother, 236 00:18:05,689 --> 00:18:08,688 I'm starting to realize that maybe, actually, they are right. 237 00:18:08,689 --> 00:18:13,068 You miss on motherhood if you focus too much on career. 238 00:18:16,689 --> 00:18:20,688 ...and Anthony sent me pictures, "Look," and I'm, like, 239 00:18:20,689 --> 00:18:22,965 on my phone here and I'm like, "Great, I'm not home." 240 00:18:52,793 --> 00:18:58,033 I don't wanna miss any other first moment ever anymore. 241 00:18:58,034 --> 00:19:01,826 I'd rather slow down my career. 242 00:19:01,827 --> 00:19:04,999 So I think my business is gonna come a little bit later. 243 00:19:05,000 --> 00:19:06,275 It's just on hold for now. 244 00:19:20,620 --> 00:19:24,999 Chloe, what would it take for you to be like, 245 00:19:25,000 --> 00:19:27,654 "OK, actually, I'm gonna take my best friend's advice 246 00:19:27,655 --> 00:19:30,000 that this is a bad idea"? 247 00:19:32,172 --> 00:19:34,654 If something were to happen, 248 00:19:34,655 --> 00:19:38,067 I would pack my so fast. 249 00:19:38,068 --> 00:19:39,172 Just prepare yourself. That's all I'm saying. 250 00:19:46,379 --> 00:19:50,550 Now knowing what my mom is taking away, 251 00:19:50,551 --> 00:19:54,412 I'm not gonna throw everything I know away 252 00:19:54,413 --> 00:19:56,620 for someone who's gonna cheat. 253 00:19:57,172 --> 00:20:01,412 Maria and Camila have told me in the past 254 00:20:01,413 --> 00:20:03,619 that I should probably pack my and leave. 255 00:20:03,620 --> 00:20:05,861 But I obviously did not listen. 256 00:20:05,862 --> 00:20:07,172 Are you worried right now? 257 00:20:07,517 --> 00:20:10,412 - No. - No? 258 00:20:10,413 --> 00:20:14,206 I think I can trust him again. I truly do, 'cause I see it. 259 00:20:14,482 --> 00:20:17,550 Like, I do see it changing. 260 00:20:17,551 --> 00:20:20,412 Yes, we have issues, and yes, I do cry about it. 261 00:20:20,413 --> 00:20:24,103 But to me, now, I'm like, "I am making the right decision." 262 00:20:25,413 --> 00:20:29,516 I mean, it sucks to know that they don't have hope 263 00:20:29,517 --> 00:20:32,723 for our relationship, but their opinions, 264 00:20:32,724 --> 00:20:34,723 at the end of the day, don't really change 265 00:20:34,724 --> 00:20:36,412 how I feel. 266 00:20:36,413 --> 00:20:37,724 Should we keep going? 267 00:20:37,896 --> 00:20:40,964 - I'm going. - I have to go home. 268 00:20:40,965 --> 00:20:42,517 I have to leave you guys. 269 00:20:42,758 --> 00:20:45,171 I do love him, and I wanna be with him, 270 00:20:45,172 --> 00:20:47,378 so I hope that he can show me 271 00:20:47,379 --> 00:20:49,000 everything I'm doing for him is worth it. 272 00:20:50,206 --> 00:20:52,344 So, you know how much I love... 273 00:20:52,793 --> 00:20:54,172 to go out with you? 274 00:20:54,896 --> 00:20:57,205 OK. 275 00:20:57,206 --> 00:21:00,964 Unfortunately, or fortunately, Jonathan's gonna come. 276 00:21:00,965 --> 00:21:03,826 It's meatball night. 277 00:21:03,827 --> 00:21:05,999 It's gonna be meatball night, but I think it's also important 278 00:21:06,000 --> 00:21:10,067 that we all talk it out. 279 00:21:10,068 --> 00:21:12,964 Jonathan and I have one rule that if I'm going to a bar, 280 00:21:12,965 --> 00:21:16,102 I will always extend the invite to him, 281 00:21:16,103 --> 00:21:19,067 and Maria absolutely hates it. 282 00:21:19,068 --> 00:21:21,343 But at the end of the day, a relationship is 283 00:21:21,344 --> 00:21:22,585 a relationship, and I think it needs to be respected 284 00:21:22,586 --> 00:21:24,551 on both sides. 285 00:21:25,206 --> 00:21:29,655 So you can't go to a bar with your friend alone? 286 00:21:31,310 --> 00:21:34,171 - No, I think... well, no. - Ah! 287 00:21:34,172 --> 00:21:34,275 Can I take your order, please? 288 00:21:35,310 --> 00:21:36,757 Um, I'll do a vodka Sprite 289 00:21:36,758 --> 00:21:39,999 with a little bit of grenadine, please. 290 00:21:40,000 --> 00:21:42,654 Reposado with pineapple juice, please. 291 00:21:42,655 --> 00:21:44,171 He's coming because he doesn't-- 292 00:21:44,172 --> 00:21:46,412 he doesn't trust you at a bar. 293 00:21:46,413 --> 00:21:48,102 He has no reason not to trust me. 294 00:21:48,103 --> 00:21:49,827 Yeah, but he's still coming tonight. 295 00:21:50,103 --> 00:21:53,550 Johny, whenever he goes out with Keyner, 296 00:21:53,551 --> 00:21:55,171 he's doing stuff. 297 00:21:55,172 --> 00:21:57,481 So he thinks Chloe and I are doing the same. 298 00:21:57,482 --> 00:21:58,861 - Come take a seat. - Welcome back. 299 00:21:58,862 --> 00:22:01,136 How does it feel? 300 00:22:01,137 --> 00:22:03,688 - I'm exhausted, but good. - Yeah? 301 00:22:03,689 --> 00:22:05,033 In Spanish, you call it machista, 302 00:22:05,034 --> 00:22:07,550 like a-- like a macho, kind of like, 303 00:22:07,551 --> 00:22:09,619 "I have the upper hand, you have to do this, 304 00:22:09,620 --> 00:22:11,654 you have to do that, but I can do this." 305 00:22:11,655 --> 00:22:14,517 And he kind of has that trait. 306 00:22:14,689 --> 00:22:17,447 We were saying, like, it's important, 307 00:22:17,448 --> 00:22:20,585 like, for you to be OK with me and Maria going out, 308 00:22:20,586 --> 00:22:22,585 'cause this is literally what we do. 309 00:22:22,586 --> 00:22:25,688 Now you're living here, it's not vacation mode anymore. 310 00:22:25,689 --> 00:22:28,240 Like, you can't be, you know, going out till late. 311 00:22:28,241 --> 00:22:29,826 You just can't, you know what I mean? 312 00:22:29,827 --> 00:22:33,274 Like, maybe once or twice in a year, you know, like... 313 00:22:33,275 --> 00:22:34,999 - Once or twice in a year? - Yeah. 314 00:22:35,000 --> 00:22:37,585 - Am I in jail? - No, you're just-- 315 00:22:37,586 --> 00:22:38,654 you're just... - What do you mean? 316 00:22:38,655 --> 00:22:39,757 What do you mean, what-- 317 00:22:39,758 --> 00:22:42,447 What if it, yeah, but it just... 318 00:22:42,448 --> 00:22:45,378 like, it'll just, maybe one day it just happens. 319 00:22:45,379 --> 00:22:47,964 Like, if you were having a night where you were having 320 00:22:47,965 --> 00:22:50,171 so much fun, and you're like, "It's just gonna be 321 00:22:50,172 --> 00:22:52,516 a late night." 322 00:22:52,517 --> 00:22:54,136 - OK, so... - I can't pry you out of it. 323 00:22:54,137 --> 00:22:55,793 ...if you have a late night, I'll have a late night. 324 00:22:55,965 --> 00:22:59,067 - Don't do it out of spite. - That's not out of spite. 325 00:22:59,068 --> 00:23:02,793 But I mean, just saying, I don't want it to be a habit. 326 00:23:03,482 --> 00:23:07,033 The thing is, like, I feel like you recently 327 00:23:07,034 --> 00:23:10,274 have done things that are questionable. 328 00:23:10,275 --> 00:23:14,171 And I feel like you project that on her 329 00:23:14,172 --> 00:23:15,481 thinking that she might be doing the same. 330 00:23:15,482 --> 00:23:17,241 I didn't do anything. 331 00:23:18,586 --> 00:23:21,861 - You didn't physically do anything. - Exactly. 332 00:23:21,862 --> 00:23:23,172 But you should not have messaged another girl. 333 00:23:27,517 --> 00:23:29,826 - Don't lie. - What girl did I message? 334 00:23:29,827 --> 00:23:31,172 The girl... 335 00:23:31,620 --> 00:23:35,240 I'm not getting into this. 336 00:23:35,241 --> 00:23:37,310 - I'm not-- - You messaged-- you messaged another girl 337 00:23:38,000 --> 00:23:40,344 that you met on Jolly Pirate. 338 00:23:40,793 --> 00:23:43,861 That's why you're smiling. You do this-- 339 00:23:43,862 --> 00:23:45,724 you do this when you know exactly what I'm talking about. 340 00:23:46,689 --> 00:23:49,136 Yeah. 341 00:23:49,137 --> 00:23:50,274 So now-- now you're gonna tell me that you didn't? 342 00:23:50,275 --> 00:23:52,171 I-- I didn't. 343 00:23:52,172 --> 00:23:53,826 You didn't actually have a threesome with another girl. 344 00:23:53,827 --> 00:23:55,516 No, but you implied that you were going to. 345 00:23:55,517 --> 00:23:57,447 You didn't say-- no. 346 00:23:57,448 --> 00:23:58,964 You didn't say you were going to, you just-- 347 00:23:58,965 --> 00:24:01,067 I don't even wanna look at you guys right now. 348 00:24:01,068 --> 00:24:02,895 But you can't say, "That didn't happen." 349 00:24:02,896 --> 00:24:05,793 OK, yeah, it happened-- OK? 350 00:24:07,793 --> 00:24:11,688 You know, like, it's hard to say, but before Chloe, 351 00:24:11,689 --> 00:24:13,309 I was doing whatever I want. 352 00:24:13,310 --> 00:24:14,481 And then when I started with Chloe, 353 00:24:14,482 --> 00:24:16,378 that habit really was still there 354 00:24:16,379 --> 00:24:18,240 with me for a little bit. 355 00:24:18,241 --> 00:24:20,999 So, like a few months ago, there's these crazy girls that 356 00:24:21,000 --> 00:24:22,826 came on the boat, hang out and stuff like that. 357 00:24:22,827 --> 00:24:24,757 I gave her my social. 358 00:24:24,758 --> 00:24:26,516 And then when I got home, she messaged me. 359 00:24:26,517 --> 00:24:28,585 And she said, "Hey, are you going to go out?" 360 00:24:28,586 --> 00:24:31,171 I said, "No, I don't go out. I don't really drink." 361 00:24:31,172 --> 00:24:33,964 And she's like, "What if I come with my friend?" 362 00:24:33,965 --> 00:24:37,447 And I put as a joke saying, "Only if it's a threesome." 363 00:24:37,448 --> 00:24:41,310 And then, of course, Chloe saw the message like an hour later. 364 00:24:42,482 --> 00:24:44,034 I let-- she checks my phone. 365 00:24:47,206 --> 00:24:49,619 I mean, yeah. 366 00:24:49,620 --> 00:24:52,413 It's a joke, man. It's a joke. 367 00:24:53,931 --> 00:24:58,448 OK, so what I'm worried about is that obviously Chloe... 368 00:24:59,103 --> 00:25:02,274 has given up everything for you. 369 00:25:02,275 --> 00:25:05,792 You know, head over heels, Mom's company, everything. 370 00:25:05,793 --> 00:25:09,688 And I'm just worried that... 371 00:25:09,689 --> 00:25:12,550 you haven't really changed doing what you do. 372 00:25:12,551 --> 00:25:16,067 I'm, like, I'm just worried, like, honestly. 373 00:25:16,068 --> 00:25:18,067 I know you're concerned, but honestly, this is-- 374 00:25:18,068 --> 00:25:20,378 she's living with me, you know what I mean? 375 00:25:20,379 --> 00:25:22,723 I never had any woman live with me in my house, you know? 376 00:25:22,724 --> 00:25:26,136 So it's like, probably very, very serious. 377 00:25:26,137 --> 00:25:29,654 You know, I did up, you know, 378 00:25:29,655 --> 00:25:32,550 a couple times, and, you know, I-- I learned my lesson, 379 00:25:32,551 --> 00:25:36,067 and now I really, really wanna take this seriously. 380 00:25:36,068 --> 00:25:38,999 I don't wanna let her, nor her mom, or nor you down. 381 00:25:42,172 --> 00:25:46,240 It's so frustrating because you engage 382 00:25:46,241 --> 00:25:48,723 in a conversation with him, and he just takes you in. 383 00:25:48,724 --> 00:25:51,964 You know, Johny is such a charming guy. 384 00:25:51,965 --> 00:25:55,999 I believe that he loves her and that he wants to believe 385 00:25:56,000 --> 00:25:58,861 what he's saying, but it's just a matter of time 386 00:25:58,862 --> 00:26:01,309 until he just does it again. Like, it's-- it's a habit. 387 00:26:01,310 --> 00:26:02,654 You know, she's young, and she's like, 388 00:26:02,655 --> 00:26:04,378 "Oh, yeah, I'm in love, I wanna get married," 389 00:26:04,379 --> 00:26:05,448 and I'm like, "Oh, God." 390 00:26:47,551 --> 00:26:50,585 Let's go. 391 00:26:50,586 --> 00:26:54,034 - Yeah, picnic! - Picnic! 392 00:26:54,689 --> 00:26:59,171 - This place is very beautiful. - Yeah. 393 00:26:59,172 --> 00:27:01,481 Today's holiday, so the cafe's closed, 394 00:27:01,482 --> 00:27:03,550 and we are going to a park 395 00:27:03,551 --> 00:27:06,034 to have a picnic and play cricket. 396 00:27:06,482 --> 00:27:10,102 - I think this is a good spot. - Yeah. 397 00:27:10,103 --> 00:27:12,448 Jenny is not into any kind of sport... 398 00:27:19,793 --> 00:27:22,999 Like cricket? No, no, nothing. 399 00:27:23,000 --> 00:27:24,792 So it should be interesting. 400 00:27:26,379 --> 00:27:29,136 - Wow! - I hit it! 401 00:27:37,896 --> 00:27:41,205 - Whoa! - Whoa! 402 00:27:41,206 --> 00:27:43,965 You don't expect me to chase that, do you? 403 00:27:46,068 --> 00:27:48,585 - Good, very good. - Yeah, wow. 404 00:27:48,586 --> 00:27:50,723 Oh. 405 00:27:54,448 --> 00:27:56,102 Wow! 406 00:27:56,103 --> 00:27:56,965 Jenny, dive. 407 00:28:04,172 --> 00:28:05,723 Oh! 408 00:28:05,724 --> 00:28:06,655 On the head. 409 00:28:11,482 --> 00:28:12,758 Jenny? 410 00:28:16,034 --> 00:28:18,516 Sorry. 411 00:28:22,689 --> 00:28:24,931 I wasn't paying attention. 412 00:28:28,655 --> 00:28:31,965 - Yeah. - You did that on purpose, didn't you? 413 00:28:32,172 --> 00:28:35,240 Thank God that was a... 414 00:28:35,241 --> 00:28:36,861 rubber ball-- yeah. - A soft ball. 415 00:28:36,862 --> 00:28:40,034 Yeah, not a real cricket ball. I'd have been dead. 416 00:28:41,655 --> 00:28:46,516 - Oh, tired, we had-- - That was fun. 417 00:28:46,517 --> 00:28:48,654 Come sit next to me. 418 00:28:49,896 --> 00:28:52,033 - Jenny? - Oh. 419 00:28:52,034 --> 00:28:56,551 Oh, my gosh-- sorry. 420 00:28:57,172 --> 00:28:59,758 No shoes on the mat. 421 00:29:22,448 --> 00:29:24,654 - What happened? - Nothing. 422 00:29:24,655 --> 00:29:26,309 She's just getting emotional 423 00:29:26,310 --> 00:29:27,931 that finally we all are living together. 424 00:30:02,758 --> 00:30:06,343 I'm just thinking, "Here we go again." 425 00:30:06,344 --> 00:30:11,240 We're always walking on eggshells with Sumit's mom. 426 00:30:11,241 --> 00:30:13,033 And now that we're living with her, 427 00:30:13,034 --> 00:30:15,343 it's just gotten so much worse. 428 00:30:40,448 --> 00:30:44,378 What is she upset about? 429 00:30:44,379 --> 00:30:48,241 Things have to be, like, the way they want it, like... 430 00:30:50,000 --> 00:30:52,620 I agree. She needs to chill. 431 00:31:51,275 --> 00:31:53,793 I'm gonna go check on Kairo, OK? 432 00:31:54,103 --> 00:31:57,240 Madelein, calling the wedding off three, 433 00:31:57,241 --> 00:32:00,517 four times, I mean, that's not a very good indicator. 434 00:32:03,413 --> 00:32:04,344 Yeah. 435 00:32:17,413 --> 00:32:23,550 ♪ Señorita, como tu te mueves, oh, como te lo haría ♪ 436 00:32:23,551 --> 00:32:26,103 ♪ Como te lo haría ♪ 437 00:32:26,482 --> 00:32:33,551 ♪ Señorita, baila conmigo ésta noche ♪ 438 00:32:38,586 --> 00:32:41,930 "Nice to meet you." 439 00:32:41,931 --> 00:32:43,895 - Nice... - Nice 440 00:32:43,896 --> 00:32:45,309 - To... - To. 441 00:32:45,310 --> 00:32:47,205 - Meet... - Meet. 442 00:32:47,206 --> 00:32:48,585 - You. - You. 443 00:32:54,068 --> 00:32:56,344 Nice to meet-- 444 00:33:01,172 --> 00:33:04,826 - Nice you... - Meet you. 445 00:33:04,827 --> 00:33:06,412 ...meet you. 446 00:33:09,896 --> 00:33:11,757 It's the night before our wedding, and we're having 447 00:33:11,758 --> 00:33:13,792 a family dinner. 448 00:33:13,793 --> 00:33:17,274 My dad meeting Madelein's family is a huge deal. 449 00:33:17,275 --> 00:33:20,654 It's their first meeting. I want it to go smoothly. 450 00:33:20,655 --> 00:33:23,517 There's a huge language barrier. It's a little bit awkward. 451 00:33:24,379 --> 00:33:25,655 It's weird. 452 00:33:29,482 --> 00:33:32,792 My mom, she coming tomorrow. 453 00:33:32,793 --> 00:33:34,412 - Oh, it's gonna be beautiful. - Yeah. 454 00:33:34,413 --> 00:33:36,067 It's going to be a beautiful day. 455 00:33:36,068 --> 00:33:38,067 Can you translate for me? 456 00:33:38,068 --> 00:33:41,792 This is what weddings are about, the joining of families 457 00:33:41,793 --> 00:33:46,585 and, you know, happiness and just being in the moment. 458 00:34:13,758 --> 00:34:15,103 Aw! 459 00:34:27,000 --> 00:34:28,655 Oh, no! 460 00:34:32,793 --> 00:34:35,274 She can't wait until-- 461 00:34:39,344 --> 00:34:41,551 You're gonna need one of these. 462 00:34:42,275 --> 00:34:45,447 - Been a long time coming. - Yeah. 463 00:34:45,448 --> 00:34:48,792 And it was meant to be. Two become one tomorrow. 464 00:35:23,275 --> 00:35:26,136 The weather here is so crazy. 465 00:35:31,000 --> 00:35:34,551 God, please don't raining tomorrow. 466 00:35:53,068 --> 00:35:55,412 I'm gonna go check on Kairo, OK? 467 00:35:55,413 --> 00:35:56,723 OK. 468 00:35:56,724 --> 00:35:57,792 Love you, bye. 469 00:35:57,793 --> 00:35:58,793 All right, boy. 470 00:36:07,241 --> 00:36:09,826 - Si, I so excited. - You know what I'm saying? 471 00:36:09,827 --> 00:36:12,033 I see it in my eyes, is that too close. 472 00:36:12,034 --> 00:36:13,343 In the rain, they're setting up for your wedding tomorrow, so. 473 00:36:13,344 --> 00:36:15,343 Yeah. 474 00:36:15,344 --> 00:36:17,102 It's gotta go down, girl, either way. 475 00:36:17,103 --> 00:36:18,482 It is. 476 00:36:23,413 --> 00:36:28,447 Madelein, she's lovely. Luke's a very lucky man. 477 00:36:28,448 --> 00:36:31,999 But I must be honest, I've heard she can be 478 00:36:32,000 --> 00:36:35,102 quite controlling and the stripper, and, you know, 479 00:36:35,103 --> 00:36:37,378 throwing the cake at Luke's face 480 00:36:37,379 --> 00:36:40,654 and calling the wedding off three, four times. 481 00:36:40,655 --> 00:36:43,550 I mean, that's not a very good indicator 482 00:36:43,551 --> 00:36:45,723 going into a marriage. 483 00:36:45,724 --> 00:36:47,586 You're gonna be marrying my son. 484 00:36:48,793 --> 00:36:51,102 And I am gonna protect my son. 485 00:36:51,103 --> 00:36:54,067 But, you know, he's made 486 00:36:54,068 --> 00:36:56,895 so many sacrifices to spend the rest of his life 487 00:36:56,896 --> 00:36:59,378 with you until the day he dies. 488 00:36:59,379 --> 00:37:02,654 But it hasn't been an easy road, you know. 489 00:37:02,655 --> 00:37:04,793 There's been-- there's been a lot of bumps in the road. 490 00:37:06,103 --> 00:37:09,688 I've got one question for you before I go to bed 491 00:37:09,689 --> 00:37:12,137 and then put that suit on in the morning. 492 00:37:12,310 --> 00:37:15,481 - The three weeks that he's been here... - Yeah. 493 00:37:15,482 --> 00:37:17,310 ...the things that have gone wrong, it's... 494 00:37:21,482 --> 00:37:23,585 You've had a couple of arguments, 495 00:37:23,586 --> 00:37:25,102 'cause he's told me about it. - Yeah. 496 00:37:25,103 --> 00:37:26,655 Is this really what you want? 497 00:37:34,172 --> 00:37:37,895 There's no making this woman happy. 498 00:37:37,896 --> 00:37:39,412 I'm hitting a breaking point here. 499 00:37:39,413 --> 00:37:40,861 I'm just done. 500 00:37:43,827 --> 00:37:44,965 Someone needs to put her in her place. 501 00:38:11,206 --> 00:38:14,343 Why is she so upset? Is she mad at me? 502 00:38:14,344 --> 00:38:15,137 No. 503 00:38:22,551 --> 00:38:26,516 Mom is very hard, isn't she? She's very-- 504 00:38:26,517 --> 00:38:28,240 It's very difficult to make her happy. 505 00:38:28,241 --> 00:38:29,620 - Yeah. - Very difficult to make her happy. 506 00:39:14,000 --> 00:39:17,343 She needs to calm down. She needs to relax. 507 00:39:17,344 --> 00:39:18,724 She's gonna give herself a heart attack. 508 00:39:45,103 --> 00:39:47,102 God, man. 509 00:39:47,103 --> 00:39:50,310 Who can enjoy their life behaving like that? 510 00:39:52,206 --> 00:39:56,378 It was only a matter of time before Sadhna lost it. 511 00:39:56,379 --> 00:39:58,136 I can't take this anymore. 512 00:39:58,137 --> 00:40:00,516 It's been six years living in India 513 00:40:00,517 --> 00:40:03,792 dealing with Mom's freakouts. 514 00:40:03,793 --> 00:40:06,274 There's no making this woman happy. 515 00:40:09,793 --> 00:40:12,585 It's making me realize that 516 00:40:12,586 --> 00:40:15,585 this is how it's always gonna be with her. 517 00:40:15,586 --> 00:40:17,482 Screw that. 518 00:40:17,758 --> 00:40:21,205 I'm not gonna live with someone yelling at me 519 00:40:21,206 --> 00:40:24,999 all the time just because they're not getting what they want. 520 00:40:25,000 --> 00:40:26,516 I'm hitting a breaking point here. 521 00:40:26,517 --> 00:40:27,344 I'm just done. 522 00:40:36,896 --> 00:40:41,274 She takes this "I'm the boss of the family" stuff too far. 523 00:40:45,034 --> 00:40:46,965 Someone needs to put her in her place. 524 00:40:53,517 --> 00:40:56,654 Next time on "90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way." 525 00:40:56,655 --> 00:40:57,895 - Oh. - Oh 526 00:40:57,896 --> 00:41:00,309 - Oh. - Away we go. 527 00:41:00,310 --> 00:41:02,412 Pattiya said she wants to go back to the US, 528 00:41:02,413 --> 00:41:03,792 and go back to dancing. 529 00:41:03,793 --> 00:41:06,240 Hey, don't peck him. 530 00:41:06,241 --> 00:41:07,516 But I want us to stay together. 531 00:41:07,517 --> 00:41:09,792 I want this to work. 532 00:41:09,793 --> 00:41:12,034 When something's meant to be, it always finds a way. 533 00:41:16,344 --> 00:41:20,171 Now I feel like our life is really starting here. 534 00:41:20,172 --> 00:41:22,378 We finally found the perfect house, 535 00:41:22,379 --> 00:41:25,412 and we are about to be moving in. 536 00:41:25,413 --> 00:41:27,412 Pulling in... 537 00:41:27,413 --> 00:41:29,861 ...for the first time. - Oh, my God! 538 00:41:29,862 --> 00:41:32,034 Hey, first-time jitters. 539 00:41:39,517 --> 00:41:42,861 I'm not gonna just follow Mom's orders. 540 00:41:42,862 --> 00:41:44,412 I'm ready to leave. 541 00:41:44,413 --> 00:41:47,309 The arguments and the fighting. 542 00:41:47,310 --> 00:41:48,344 I'm too old for this. 543 00:41:53,241 --> 00:41:55,378 He has cheated. 544 00:41:55,379 --> 00:41:56,724 But when he was younger. 545 00:42:03,103 --> 00:42:07,343 You should have no doubts in your mind. 546 00:42:07,344 --> 00:42:12,482 No man alive would sacrifice what he sacrificed for you. 547 00:42:14,000 --> 00:42:19,033 Jonathan, he left his phone on his nightstand, 548 00:42:19,034 --> 00:42:23,240 so I respectively went through it. 549 00:42:23,241 --> 00:42:26,861 I don't think I've ever experienced 550 00:42:26,862 --> 00:42:31,136 this much hurt. 551 00:42:31,137 --> 00:42:33,482 I don't wanna be around him. Like, I don't wanna see him.